Licensed Mental Health Counselor In New York

 

Maria Ruiz De Toro, LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Supervisor

Are you experiencing emotional pain? Symptoms are not the problem but the solution! By listening to ourselves and reviewing intimate issues, relational patterns and life experiences, in a structured and organized manner; we can better understand out pain and symptoms, heal and gain insight to resolve our conflicts, be more emotionally consistent and work towards supporting out real self. I welcome you to work on this process. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches, including insight oriented, psychodynamic and experiential therapies, and evidence-based treatment such as cognitive behavioral therapy.

Please know that one of the strengths of my work entails sorting through life events, including child history and relationships, and helping you to reframe and restructure them into healthier perceptions and positive internalized realities that promote growth.

I believe that including the person’s style and personal interests is essential during the healing process. I also incorporate art interventions and body awareness techniques into my practice. As an international psychotherapist I have lived in and traveled to different parts of the world, including Asia, Europe, and the Americas and I have worked with a culturally diverse caseload throughout my career.

Areas of Expertise:

  • Anxiety and Depression
  • Family Therapy and Couples Therapy
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Parenting Issues
  • Developmental Crisis
  • Life transitions/Moves and Changes
  • Acculturation and Adjustment
  • Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy

Education and Experience:

  • M.A., Brooklyn College, The City University of New York
  • Interpersonal Psychoanalysis, William Alanson White Institute of Psychiatry
  • Wellness Self-Management, Columbia University, New York State Institute
  • Family Therapy and Systemic Approach, Ackerman Institute
  • Foundations in Marriage and Family Therapy.
  • Alternatives for Families: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, St. John’s University
  • Trauma Focused CBT (Web), Medical University of South Carolina
  • Mental Health and Family Therapy Training, Roberto Clemente Center NY
  • Intake Coordinator
  • New York State License 006853

Click here to schedule an appointment with Maria.

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